You can do this by improving your wardrobe, working out those muscles, or even just generally getting into fitness. These are the very core things that make an appealing look. Let’s start with clothes. While vintage can always be good, clothes from an earlier era will come across as kind of subpar. Why not invest in a few new dress shirts, polos, and sports jackets? These are usually the clothes that are widespread in popularity. Additionally, you can also take the look into a new direction. If you want to show off the results of your workouts, then wear clothes that are just enough to accent your muscles.

If you have no physique to show off, why not try going for a tour in the gym? And no, you don’t have to end up a meat head. If you find that you are just a little overweight, then chances are you might need to work out a little. It’s not all bad, and in fact, it can be a great means to meet other people. Not to mention the many health benefits of working out at the gym. If you truly want to feel as good as you look, then a little bit of work on your part is necessary. There is only so much bravado can do for a woman and a man.

The first thing you should start on is getting that fit body you’ve always wanted for yourself. It’s all really a matter of working through the pounds, and gaining the proper weight back. While romantic comedies do tell you that it’s what’s inside that matter. Sometimes, looks can be a gate to that insightful look on things. Now if you want to look great, why don’t you try joining a gym, or even learning compound workouts?

There are no excuses either; we are at an age when we can do a lot of things at home. If you look up home exercise, you can be sure to learn a lot of workouts. Squats, pushups, and sit-ups are a great start. After that a jogging route will work more in your favor. As with most people who work out, what was standard can be deviated upon to expound effects. This means even with these simple 5 minute workouts you can get more of a burn than you will expect. In human attraction, there is no better key than to physique, so get to work now while it’s early.

Believe it or not, it isn’t penis size that counts nor is it about all of the sexual positions he knows about. These are simply misconceptions put on by the pornography and sex industry. There are actually four principles to really focus on:

The way a man presents himself is very important-even before you get into the bedroom. Let’s look at what’s important in male sex appeal when it comes to experience. Looks are really a matter of making the very best out of what you have to work with. Women basically care more about what’s on the inside of a guy than what is on the outside.

Be well mannered, polite, considerate and romantic as these are traits that will impress just about any woman. Make certain you have a clean face, a beautiful smile, moisturizer on your face if needed and aftershave. Make regular visits to the dentist to make sure you have a white smile. Use tooth whiteners that are relatively inexpensive in order to keep your teeth sparkling.

The way you dress is important, too. Hire an image consultant to help you out if you don’t have any fashion sense. These people are trained to help you look your very best. It is an important part of male sex appeal.

Be the most considerate lover as you can be. Remember that it is not just your needs you need to think of but that of another person’s. You need to keep the lines of communication open and be really open with your partner in order to have the best male sex appeal ever.

There isn’t any right or wrong way to make love and everyone has his or her own dislikes and likes when it comes to sex. There are a few basic things, however, that women really like. Women see sex as an emotional attachment rather than just a sex act.

They need lots of basic foreplay in order to enjoy sex and really relax. Women take longer in order to be completely ready to have an orgasm. Many men don’t know that 90 percent of women don’t feel kissed enough so take the time to kiss your female partner.

In addition, most women feel sensitive around the appearance of their butts and want to feel like someone appreciates their buttocks. Spend time on the buttocks in order to make her feel more confident. Kiss the buttocks, stroke and massage it and she will really be turned on. All of this is connected to emotional bonding and intimacy. It all contributes to make sex appeal.

Most women adore oral sex and have better orgasms with this technique than with full on sex. Let’s take a look at some proven techniques that will drive her crazy and give her the best possible orgasm.

Make sure you target the G spot. Use the top major positions of the Kama Sutra, which are simple positions and will lead to great orgasms. Use oral sex along with intercourse to bring your partner to the best orgasm. Use male sex appeal to make her always wanting you (and just you) for the acquaintance you form and the great sex you have.

Question by blue angel: sex appeal?
what is sex appeal? is it something that can be obtained or not? if it is yes, how to gain sex appeal??

Best answer:

Answer by Jack-A
Be confident in yourself and strong in your opinions and you’ll end up having more sex appeal than any mini-skirt could ever buy you.

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Sexy: 1 - sexually suggestive or stimulating; erotic. Sexiness is defined as: sexually suggestive or stimulating; erotic…ok…let’s define sex appeal: 1 - personal appeal or physical attractiveness especially for members of the opposite sex.

Most women know that men are visual creatures and have sex on the brain. By the way, contrary to popular belief, we don’t really think about sex every 7 seconds as Alfred Kinsey once reported. A recently conducted survey found that 54 percent of men think about sex several times a day, according to the National Academy of Scientists.

These stats are interesting, but not important because all men need to know is this: women don’t think about – or want – sex as much we do. What would be interesting to note (and what I’d pay money to find out) is how often do women think about their own sex appeal? Probably just as much – if not more – as men think about sex.

While men want sex (in general), women want to know that they are sexually appealing (in particular) to the man of their choice. While single, their sexiness gives them an advantage in attracting men in the singles marketplace over their competition. The sexiest girl in the club is often the one who gets the most attention, but her true sex appeal is not readily known.

More primitive men think of a woman’s sex appeal in terms of who they’d most like to have sex with. That form of sex appeal lacks distinction and discrimination. It’s also biological. Men are not hormonally wired for monogamy. Our lecherous ways in fact serve a biological function in the procreation process. Selection conflicts with that process. Our criteria is mind-numbingly simple.

Contrary to what men think, women (even those who are promiscuous) are selective (at least more selective than men). The cost of having sex – and the potential results thereof – are much greater for women. Richard F. Taflinger had this to say on the subject in his popular article The Biological Basis of Sex Appeal:

In most species, females bear the brunt of the cost of sex in both time and energy. Among mammals, she must not only produce the young, she must rear them to the point of self-sufficiency. Thus, unlike the male, she doesn’t have the choice of promiscuity, of creating as many offspring as possible as quickly as possible; she can not abandon offspring as soon as they are born, or her genes die with the infant (Daly 1983).

All this means she must be highly selective in her choice of mates if she wishes to produce the highest quality offspring in her reproductive lifetime. If she selects just any male that comes along, she could waste all the time and energy that pregnancy and rearing require on a possibly weak or nonviable offspring. Her criteria thus are aimed at getting the best possible male. What is important is the quality of genes he brings and the help, if any, she will have while carrying, bearing and rearing her young.

Her criteria, therefore, are more complex than the male’s. Not only must he be physically acceptable, but should satisfy other factors that may contribute to her and her offspring’s welfare. These can include leadership, status within a group, and fighting skill. The sex act, and his participation, being so brief, doesn’t have to be of any great interest to her. He need merely be able to achieve orgasm.

Darwinism aside, sex appeal plays a major role in the context of a relationship. The “personal” aspect of sex appeal is a dual process: 1) relating to one’s self in a personal way that speaks to your belief in your physical attractiveness which makes you feel more desirable 2) relating to one’s lover in a way that makes him feel physically attractive. Two people who feel inner attractiveness and find each other to be highly desirable is very sexy.

Before any of that happens, a huge hurdle must be overcome. A hurdle that often proves to be insurmountable for many women, but is absolutely necessary in achieving true sex appeal: comfort with one’s body (including self-diagnosed imperfections) and a healthy attitude about one’s sexuality, and sex in general. It’s truly a rarity. It’s also truly sexy.

Ask any man you know who has experienced this type of sex appeal and they will probably describe it one word: irresistible. It’s also elusive. There are many women who are sexy, but many lack sex appeal. Tight pants, form-fitting dresses, high skirts, abundance of cleavage, it’s all…titillating but it’s no indicator of sex appeal; it’s merely an attempt at being sexy with the use of skimpy clothing.

At the end of the day (especially at night) evolved men know that women who have sex appeal don’t need the help of sexy clothes to showcase it. Their sex appeal comes through – clothed or not. Their sexiness lies within the tangible comfort levels within themselves, and the organic sex appeal which resides there. That type of sexiness never leaves…or has to be brought back.

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Question by banzaiii: sex-appeal?
please tell me what sex-appeal means to you, i mean what exactly you find attractive at a woman/man

Best answer:

Answer by CamelToe Gourmet
reasonable hygiene and visible nipples

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THE KNOWING.
The knowing in sexual intercourse is the knowledge of both “the body and the mind”. Sexual relationship is a way of knowing each other intimately, deeply and personally. The man knows the woman through the act and likewise the woman. Like I said earlier it is not a knowing by face, but a knowing ti the innermost thoughts, feelings, expressions and yearnings of each other. This sex helps both the man and his wife to take knowledge of each other intimately. That is, they progressively become more deeply and intimately acquainted with each other, recognizing, perceiving and understanding each other in a personal way. Now, acquainted” here means to be familiar with each other or get used to desires, feelings and peculiarities of the other person.
You will agree with me that this knowing” is not applicable to a passer-by who just stop by, to have a release. Why? Because strangers do not intend to know each other or be acquainted. Their primary target is just to have fun, release and go. Therefore you can see that this “knowing” is just the captivations of the physical eyes, but of the mind.
If this be the case we still need to travel deep or more deeper and explore this progressive knowing of each other. We must discuss the physical body of both the man and the woman in other for us to understand this intimate knowing. Without much repetition of what has earlier been said, I must still say that this “knowing is the pre-requisite for fulfilling sexual communion in your marriage. As a woman, if you do not know how your husband’s body responds to stimuli, you may not enjoy the man to the fullest during intercourse.

UNDERSTANDING THE MAN – The mind structure.
As a wife, you need to understand why your husband is always at alert. Never a dull moment. It is as if the man is ever ready. Anytime is convenient. The reason is that, the way the mind of a man operates is different from that of the woman. A man cannot find it difficult to suspend any matter in other to turn to you for sex. For example, you would expect a man who is coming home with the bad news of business breakdowns, debt and sack letter not to even have time for sex. Right? Wrong. Even when he just heard that his mother died five minutes ago, he may come asking for sex few hours later. That may sound very odd to you. You may even question him; don’t you care about your mum? No he cares. It is just that the issues on his mind are rearranged.
You should understand as a woman that the arousal of a man is very quick, because it does not take time for him to pull the issues, challenges and worries from the shelf of his mind and replace it with another. This is possible because the mind structure of the man is is in form of compartments”. It is then easier for him to remove or replace issue with another. That is why during sexual intercourse the man does not need to clear any issue whatsoever before he is ready and go. Even when there is several unresolved issue at hand, this cannot be a hindrance to what he wants at that moment.
Once he ejaculates, he can immediately jump into another discussion or mission as though nothing just happen. While the woman may still be on the bed relaxing herself, the man is already doing another thing. Some men can rise up immediately and get5 dressed up to go for the next assignment on their schedules. However, the woman will not do that. While the readiness for sex in a man is very sharp and quick, the woman is slow and takes time. Therefore as a woman, or rather as a wife you need to study the body and mind structure of your husband. How he can quickly and easily switch on and off any issue and be ready to have sex. You must then be ready to dance to his tune, prepare yourself instead of engaging in other discussion that seem unnecessary to the man. If you are not sensitive to what he wants that time, and you are just busy talking to him, your whole discussion may be as if you are pouring water into a basket.
If you want to continue to have that man around, you must learn how to be short in details. Some men do not have time for long discussion because of their time and schedules. Once they are around, they want to discuss only serious and important issues and not menial ones. You are likely to miss his contribution as your discussion or explanation becomes too lengthy. He may not give relevant contribution and response to all your complains and discussion. He can just say” Well that’s ok”. And you wonder what is the relevant of “ok” in all you have said? The reason is because in his heart he is not with you. Likewise during sex, when you are not hitting the real matter the man is not with you. Therefore as a wife, you must understand the structure of the man and his mind.

UNDERSTANDING THE WOMAN. – The mind structure.
This is the other side of the coin. The mind structure of the woman towards sex is different. In fact it is differently different and uniquely unique from that of the man. While the mind structure of the man is in form of “compartments”, the structure of a woman’s mind is like a “storey building”. You cannot get to the last floor without passing through the first floor. Therefore, if on the first floor of her mind she keep the children school fees and rent dues there, it is impossible for the man to get to the fifth floor where sex is kept. The woman may continue to talk about an event of yesterday and at the same time joining her discussion with school fees, house rent, and her daughter’s birthday party. While the man is responding in his heart with words like” can you just round up this discussion and let’s have some funs. ? My body is already hot for it. Even if your body is freeze for it, you must clear those issues for her to be ready. Even though, the man is bored already the woman will continue to talk about the matter. Therefore, you need to understand the mind of the man.
For you to enjoy sexual intercourse with her, you must clear those pile of issues before she can be ready for you. You have to settle her for her to be settled for you. When a woman is not ready, you cannot enjoy her no matter your effort. One of things a woman wants from a man is communication and contribution. Conversational discussion is very crucial to the woman. However, men do not speak in detail, but women are very detailed in words. They do not speak in summary.
A man may come home and discuss the event of one week in just thirty minutes. But the woman can start her conversation from how she packed her load form the house to the motor park, and from there talk about her experience in a traffic jam, long hours journey and other stuffs. Moreover, when three hours is gone already it is like a three minutes discussion to the woman. She is so excited telling stories even if the man is slumbering at the moment. However a man must understand that this is how the woman’s mind is designed to function. Issues are not settled easily as expected. She require more time from her husband because she wants the man’s engagement in the matter.
However a man must not be too lengthy in her words. Your willingness to welcome the man might be an opportunity for you to be listened to. Allow the man (your husband) to fondle with your body even while you are discussing a serious matter with him. In addition as the husband as well you must try to find something to grasp from her mouth in other to give relevant advice and contribution. Make necessary contribution in the process while you are also consciously preparing her for the sexual act.
Women do not appreciate men whose busyness and business has taken them far or away from their affections, feelings and love-life. They always want their men to be there when they need them.

THE PROCESS AND THE ACT.
Having discussed the purpose of sexual act in marriage and mind structure of both the man and the woman. We need to go on further to talk about the sexual act itself. We cannot try to dodge this aspect lest we put ourselves in the dark of the whole matter. Without any repetition of we have discussed earlier, I must still say that sexual communion in marriage begins with the general knowledge of each other’s body. The body is a slave to the mind, while the mind controls the operation. They are both like the drive and the driver. They work together to make a progress in the operation. However, this article is not focusing on oral sex or any style and posture. Whichever way is convenient for both couples is good. It has to be your agreement together.
Sometimes, making a woman ready for sexual intercourse can be tiring. Knowing that you cannot enjoy her without her readiness, you must be patient with the process. Get me right, I am not saying that every time you want to have sex together you must pass through a routine work in order to do so. No. Sexual intimacy is not a one-way traffic. Just like communication is not one way, sex is not either.
There are several other things you can do to get your woman’s attention. Nevertheless, buying a woman’s favorites must not be targeted towards sex alone. You don\t have to buy a shoe in other to win your wife\s affection. Telling the woman how important she is to you can be a sure way to assure her of your love. A woman needs to be assured. You can begin your communication in the living room, bedroom, kitchen, garage, in your compound and wherever convenient. Some men communicate to their wives by buying a surprise package or her favorites, and present it with a warm kiss. With a soft and sexy voice you can say I love you babe, you are the best thing that ever happen to me.” You are already preparing the room for your target.
In this area, women know how to play their game to get the man mostly. Sometimes, a woman can arouse her husband by wearing a seductive dress in order to seduce the man to her. “Seductive” is used here instead of “attractive” because the woman’s primary aim is to distract the man and cause to concentrate on her. However, such seduction is only within the wall of their marriage. Therefore, a transparent or loosed dress worn by the woman can easily catch the man’s attention and arouse him quickly. As a woman, you must study your husband to know what sexually arouse him and draw him to your side whenever you need him. Some women prefer a charming piece of music to dance with, in order to attract the man.. At that time, if the man is sexually caught up in the same mood, his sexual organ bulges out to show arousal. However, this does not mean you can grasp the woman and start to penetrate. You must study the woman’s acceptance mentally physically and emotionally. Acceptance in the actual sense may be that the woman is still considering privacy. A married woman will not like an environment full of distraction while she is ready to have sex with her husband. She wants to be assured of privacy and concentration. Any eavesdropping or interruption by the children or other members of the family may spoil the whole excitement for her. It is then important for the man to study the woman’s readiness. A normal married woman will not condone sex that is public to other eyes.
Nevertheless, while privacy is of great importance to the woman, some men are less concerned about that. Privacy or no privacy is not a barrier to their mission. Like the man, the woman must also be ready to accept the man. Once you accept the man, you can find a way to tell him what to do. Some women enjoy fondling at the beginning, before they can open up for penetration. However, the man must not be in a hurry or rush. The ejaculation may be fast and thereby forfeit the whole experience. Let it be slow and steady, considering the woman’s enjoyment as well. When men ejaculate quickly before the woman starts to enjoy the act, it leads to frustration. The woman may not be able to feel the excitement as when started. The man is quickly tired and his sexual organ (the penis) comes down.
You can control your quick ejaculation by trying to pause along the way, wait for few seconds and continue again. Always tell your wife to stop whenever you want to do so.
When you are through, I mean after ejaculation, don’t be in a hurry. Relax and discuss together. Woman like placing her head on her husband’s chest to show the sense of belonging. I hope you will find this article useful in your love-life especially in your marriage. Continue to spice up your spouse.

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